Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Creampie

Oh do I just love the look of a sloppy pussy after its been well used. Something about seeing a white cunt drip with cum just screams SLUT! Love using a white pussy bareback, and love a slutty white woman who will let a BBC cum in her cunt unprotected. Here are a few of my favorite pictures I've collected from the web on the subject.

Friday, March 5, 2010

DISCLAIMER

My ideas of interracial play do not always necessitate that you be a cuckold or desire to be one. Nor do you women have to be BBW and submissive to please me.

I appreciate ALL persons into the interracial swinging lifestyle. I of course have some specific fetishes of my own within the entire scene, but please don't feel that these kinks must come out EVERY time I play with a couple. I respect that each of us has a different situation, and different likes and dislikes ourselves.

Sadly, a lot of material out there on the black man white woman sexual scene suggests that white men must be cuckold and submissive. I do enjoy playing to that mindset for those boyfriends and husbands that like to think that way (and I love it). But it's not a must in every case that men who like to see their woman enjoy a BBC, be a cuck. Please don't feel pressured to fit the mold, or that I put you into the category if it doesn't suit you.

I've played heavy in the submissive and humiliation scene before, and I certainly enjoy it. I do however realize its not for everyone, and I don't always need to include that or any element of fetish into sexual activity. Humiliation play can be about helping women to embrace their own bodies rather that the typical societal view of what a woman's figure should be. I like women who are able to see themselves as a sexual creature in spite of what we're told through magazines and TV.

Truly I'm all about respect, that's number one within my life. My motto is: "Treat a woman like a lady in the living room, and like a slut in the bedroom."

If I come off aggressive and cocky to you, I apologize. I never mean to offend, but I do have a forward attitude and am very open with my thoughts on sex. I like to think I represent a break from what a loving husband has to offer in the bedroom. I bring raw, assertive, and sometimes rough fun to the mattress. I'm never shy and don't beat around the bush as to what I enjoy.

I thoroughly enjoy joining married couples in their bedroom and introducing them to new obscene fetish if they seem open to it. Nothing pleases me more than seeing women explore their sexuality through expanding their boundaries. Of course with each person that can mean a different thing and at a different pace. But it should always be exciting and fun. It seems I'm approached often with: "I like this on your blog, but not that", and I certainly appreciate the feedback. Please don't assume I'm only into only one thing or one one track, I'm VERY open to all sorts of erotic fun and love trying new things out myself.



My goal is to make friends with people from all different walks of life and with all sorts of thoughts as to whats sexy. In the end it's all about open communication. Our individual tastes and interests is what makes it exciting to meet one another. And if some kinks and fetishes rub off on each other, so be it.

Spanking

I don't typically enjoy anything sexual that invokes pain, but man to I love to give a white woman a swat on her ass now and then. Doesn't have to be terribly hard to be fun, the point isn't always to turn her skin red from constant abuse. I just like to see the plump flesh of a hot ass jiggle around as i give it a smack now and again. I've always found that slapping a booty tells a woman she is desired, and that I'm not planning to be a timid in bed whatsoever.



I find Spanking incites the feeling of surrender and submission women CRAVE, as many women need to give up control and give themselves "permission" to feel sexual.
The suspense of asking her to bend over when she knows i want to give her ass a good hit, accomplishes the subtle humiliation that states I'm in charge. I want a woman to feel submissive and vulnerable and some good attention to an attractive bottom supplies just that.



The most fun can be when it's done as a surprise to a woman's rear end. When she has no idea a slap to her butt is coming is usually when the oohhh's and aahhhh's come out. After beginning with a few irregularly timed, and unanticipated swats.... she has no idea when the next wallop might fall and it's more effective in increasing her arousal.



In between a few spanks, i like to give other attention to her ass by playing with her bottom in a more caressing way, and squeezing and testing its firmness and fullness. Meanwhile telling her what I'm going to do to her bottom, and how its shape and size please me on so many levels. Then throw another sting to her ass, after deeply massaging her white butt's fatty flesh.



Some women DO love it rough I've found. They feel the need to be punished, wanting it to hurt and sting. I believe some want to be disciplined, scolded, and cleansed in a sense. Happy to make it about a little sadomasochistic pleasure for those that crave it, but I rather just enjoy the feeling of power and control I have from just putting her into the predicament of being bent over & spanked.



Usually it's not a high number of spanks or how hard they are that brings women to a wet state of sexual readiness. Rather, it's a combination of the loud and erotic clapping sound against her butt, and how deeply she feels her submissive helplessness, and the total sexual stimulation of her bottom. Done right it tells a woman she is wanted, desirable, and viewed as a sexual object, that is the key to working over a white wife's ass!



Some white women's asses are just begging for attention!

Long Distance Sexual Relationship

Maybe it's me, but every swinger I meet or every couple interested in pursuing further into the interracial lifestyle never seems to be located no where near me. Sure It's a generalization, but they all seem to be in California, Florida, One of the northeast states, and especially in Pennsylvania... Perhaps I ought to move to PA, hmmmmm?



I have traveled often to meet various couples, so distance isn't so much an issue. With my family and friends literally scattered around the country, I actually enjoy getting out of town to visit interested people. Probably safer to get out away from my immediate area to play also. Now I'd prefer a steady relationship with a local married woman, but that doesn't always work out that interested people are close by. There ARE ways to bond with married couples living thousands of miles away. Just because of the distance, that doesn't necessarily mean that you cant get to know people better, and even have a bit of sexual fun together despite the long reach.



Nasty talk through e-mails and a bit of phone sex are always a good time with far off friends. I've had a wonderful time with men and their women discussing mutual fantasies and fetishes over web-cams, long phone calls, and detailed explanations in e-mail. Unfortunately most people stop there, that becomes the extent of their friendship. Everyone has good intentions and hopes they meet up someday and somehow. In reality however it never pans out for the most part.

I have other ways to keep up erotic fun with friends from out of state. With several couples that expressed their first interest in the interracial lifestyle and cuckolding I've turned them on to something a bit different. It began with one husband that asked me to send him a pair of boxers I had. I had commented that the front of my underwear had fresh cum stains from looking at pictures of his wife. He thought it would be hot to show her the exact pair I was wearing as we discussed getting her blacked for the first time. Her seeing first hand how she made a NASTY black man like myself hard and wet at the thought of using her sexually was a turn on for both of us. So I kept my word and in fact mailed the black pair of jockey boxer briefs with obvious semen stains on the front to him. He later surprised her with the 'gift' and all went as planned. She loved the nasty thought behind it and told me later that she just wore them around the house as she got ready for bed one night to tease her husband. I was glad I could help with their fantasy role play, and help them test the waters about exploring the rest of the lifestyle further.

Since, I've made it a suggestion to other couples looking to try something different. I met a woman from Texas who wanted to play into her husbands desire to see her go black. She was hesitant to meet anyone in person and only wanted to discuss fantasies about being creampied by BBC with anonymous people online. I told her to send me a pair of her panties, worn of course, an I'd mail them back to her with a surprise. Of course I used the crotch of her panties as a cum rag and emptied a load into them before I zip locked them and returned them to their owner. I got off on thinking about her opening them and smelling the stank of another mans sperm on her own panties. I certainly hope she wore them around after she got them back, I liked imagining my expired load in the fabric of her undies sitting right against the flesh of her married pussy. I really would have liked to have seen a picture of that!

Since, I have propositioned sending lingerie to wives as a gift, even offered my expertise on sex toys I think couples would benefit from. I've been asked to use a clone a willy kit if it were sent to me to mail back for wifey's use. Though I have not yet, I've even discussed mailing my semen to interested people. Lots of kinky ideas out there yet to be explored with long distance friends.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Pussy hair

Sometimes you just have to have some variety in life. I know the current trend is to have a pussy shaven bare, or at least that's what most men want. I like to see pubic hair in various stages of length, to have a woman change it up as I see fit.



Of course you have to agree a smoothly shaved cunt is absolutely fantastic. It's sure nice to lap away at a bare cunt, without hair in your way or in your teeth. But I must admit, I find a hairy pussy with full bush just as much fun. A messy cream pie looks that much more sloppy and raunchy matted into a woman's pubes.



Ultimately I'd like a woman to go in between lengths for me, to experiment with it at my request. So many women, especially the married ones, are comfortable with one particular style for their cunt hair that they get used to only one way. I like to see em' mix it up to get out of their comfort zone. This is all about expanding her sexuality after all.



I personally enjoy it shaved bare, bushy, or in between. But my favorite might just be the small 'racing stripe' or 'landing strip' on a white wife at any age, size or shape.

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Husbands that want cucked

For those men out there that have the burning desire to watch their wife become a black mans slut, I like to play toward their cuckold wishes. I'd like to think I possess an instinctive sense of the cuckold mindset, leaning toward fulfilling desires to be part of a humiliation play while I transform their wife into my white slut. With that type of scenario in mind, I'd like to present the list of hoops I'll typically ask a husband to jump through.



TASKS FOR A CUCK HUB:

#1 Starts with a conversation where in he humbly admits that he desires to see his wife satisfied by another man. Being in this lifestyle for some time we can forget what a powerful confession this is, but it can be quite liberating as well as humiliating to openly state the cuckold fantasy. Whether it be on the phone, an e-mail, or in person this is an important first step to beginning my DOM relationship with a couple. I'd have you point blank say that you want to see my black dick in (your wife's name here), and use her for my own twisted sexual pleasure. From there I want him to spill all the beans to me about his fetishes and desires involving me taking over in the bedroom.

#2 Is verbally prepping the wife. Having him make a similar admission to his wife about his deep seeded desire to offer up his own wife to me is equally important. With some couples this has already been discussed in detail, for others a bull or dom is needed to assist in fully realizing the fantasy lifestyle. In any case she needs to know he doesn't mind being subservient to the entire situation, and in fact desires it.

#3 Would be physically prepping the wife. This can go quite in depth, but the general idea is I want HIM to take a major part in assisting to get her ready for my evening with her. It should usually involve a few major changes to her normal routine, so that he can see I'm changing her into my image of what a slut wife should be. I'm molding her to my own liking, something far different from what he's used to seeing during date nights with her. I most always begin by sending him out personally to buy some particular trashy lingerie that I've selected. I attempt to select something that is new, edgy, and unfamiliar to both of them for her to bring them out of a comfort zone and into a new version of sexy. I always enjoy the thought of a husband out at a lingerie store selecting outfits for another man to remove in the heat of passion later. The thought of another man enjoying his wife dressed up in nasty lingerie the HE is buying has to drive him crazy. Next I like to make cosmetic changes with his help. New perfume gives her a totally different scent he is unfamiliar with during his years of marriage and makes her that much more 'my girl'. He will be instructed to purchase my idea of a sexy perfume as well as some new lipstick and nail polish for her. If he is particularly sub, I've had men paint their wives toenails and fingernails before my arrival. Finally, I like a cuck hubby to assist in shaving his bride, legs and cunt. He ought to be up close and personal with his wife's pussy while contemplating how much I'm going to enjoy it a few hours later. I want him to pay attention the the details of how I asked him to shave her in a particular way for my liking. After all the next time he sees her twat this close is gonna be after I've beat it up and left it full of cum.

#4
Includes watching and listening during my time with her. In most cases I think he should be present, the first several times we meet for sure, so he can observe first hand how raw and nasty we are in bed together. It's vitally important for a cuck to witness how vastly different his lovemaking is from me using his wife for my carnal pleasure. This is where I really play toward the cuckold husbands fantasy as well. I'll demand he gets a close up as I 1st enter her body, make sure he sees how rough I am on her, and ask him questions like "Do you see her being a slut for me?". I especially like being vocal with him listening, calling his own wife filthy names in his marital bed. And I really like to encourage his woman to cry out loudly and tell me what a 'black cock whore' she is with him listening to every word.

#5 Is direct assistance with a sexual play on his own wife. I like bringing him into the action in my own ways so he can feel how he is contributing to the whole lewd situation, yet unable to stop it or make changes. I've had plenty of sub husbands hold open their wife's labia as I penetrate her, it's sort of a humble offering up of their wife's most private parts. Verbally encouraging her and I both is pretty standard for most hubs, as well as passing me sex toys and lube. What I love to do is direct a hub to take photographs of scenes and details that I find sexy. I want him to capture the moments I find most smutty and pornographic, like the coating of his wife's cum on my black cock as i thrust in and out. I've also had husbands fetch me magic markers so I can write crude and despicable things all over his spouse's flesh. The powerless yet helpful contributions he makes lend that much more of an immoral and taboo feeling for him. I want him thinking: 'my god I actually helped this bull abuse and use my own wife in an obscene fashion'.

#6 The aftermath. When I'm finally done with her, and I've left her pussy red, swollen, and leaking my load.... the aftermath is his to deal with. Some hubs like to clean up her cunt, but I like to leave it up to the woman. After all it is her cum filled cunt, she's the one that worked for it. I'd much prefer for him to have to watch as she first dips her fingers inside, scooping out as much semen as possible to bring to her mouth. For him to examine her playing with the cum I've left in her insides speaks far more to him on how much she truly enjoyed being treated like a cheap white slut wife. If after that she allows him to clean her up so be it. Then I'll send them both to the shower where he needs to assist her in cleaning up again.

#7 Is preparing for our next encounter. I'll continue communication with hubby to ready us both for my next night with her. In the meantime I may ask him to purchase some new and deviant sex toys to add even more of an perverted element to our next meet. I think most cuck hubs would have fun selecting a ball gag and collar for their wife's black master to put on her!

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

A Fine Example

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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Red Head Vixens



One of my many weaknesses, a fiery crimson haired woman. Natural or dyed, I have a special affection for red locks. They always make this black cock rock hard.







Perhaps because of a genetic rarity I'm attracted Or maby just the porcelain skin and abundant freckles that so many have.







The ones I've known have always exhibited a spit fire attitude and a real passion for life and sex!







Those 'ginger' chicks always look good on black mens skin too, make good arm candy.







I TRULY love all white women, but man alive do these sexy creatures make my knees weak.








"Once in his life, every man is entitled to fall madly in love with a gorgeous redhead."
~Lucille Ball


The Cuckolds Motive



I've heard from several boyfriends and husbands that they just want to see their woman happy. Of course they'd like to see her sexually satisfied, perhaps in a way they can not give her pleasure. Maby it is just about size, stamina, and assertiveness....

I often wonder the reasons for a white husband wanting to be cucked by a black bull.

Perhaps its wanting to 'share' what they have in a significant other. I can see being proud of what they have in a wife. Feels good to have others verify her beauty and sexual talents. Having another man confirm her attractiveness and prowess in bed is another way of gloating or bragging about the special woman in your life.

Here is another theory, When a wife takes a new lover, in her excitement, she triggers the neurochemicals of a new relationship, bringing home excitement to her husband. It's sort of re-kindling a flame to a relationship that may need the spark of some sexual excitement like that of when a couple first begin dating.

I've also heard references to the voyeuristic turn on. I'm sure its got to be hot to watch the woman you married transform into a complete slut for another man. To be there to watch it happen to her in front of ones own eyes must be an exhilarating high for some men. Those are the type of guys I like to put on a good 'show' for, to appease the voyeur in them.

We've all of course probably heard the theory referring to the biological origin of the cuck fetish. In case yo have not heard this one, it suggests that a husband is prompted by biological urges to "compete" with other men's sperm. The idea is that a deep psychological drive is triggered upon seeing their wife mate with other men, and somehow neurologically their own sperm kick into a sort of chemical overdrive to out preform a lovers semen. Not sure if I buy this one entirely, but it's interesting.

As it goes in a loving relationship, most men can not assume the role of the dominant and overly aggressive male. That's where an outsider is needed to step in and simply 'use' a woman like a piece of meat and completely ravish her. The bull can make references to what a "slut" and "Cunt" she is without regard for hurting feelings within a relationship. A loving and nurturing relationship doesn't always allow for some of the rough treatment sexually a couple can fantasize about, and continue to respect each other later. I on the other hand have no hang ups about humiliating a wife in bed and not have to deal with the blow back the morning after.

Sometimes I think hubbies like me to 'entertain' their wives in the sense of giving their woman a new toy. I don't mind being a sex object for a white wife either, Usually that's what they are to me as well.

Tell me what your motive is....................

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Tight Pussy?

Not sure why most of main stream society seems to be into tighter pussy being better. Obviously there is the idea that a woman with a tighter vagina is less of a slut than a woman with a looser pussy. I can see where most men prefer a tighter girl in the security of thinking she has not been sleeping around with many men and they may have sole privy to her constricting cunt. I can also understand how most men prefer the strained sensation of penetrating a pussy that clasps firmly around their cock. I too admit it can feel incredible when a cunt clamps down on my cock while slowly moving in and out. I've been with a few women that also know how to contract the muscles inside to squeeze my dick periodically, that is an amazing feeling I must admit.

However as much as I appreciate the type of sensations that come with a tight pussy, I also thoroughly enjoy the way a loose pussy feels. I don't think enough men give credit to the opposite of what most women believe men prefer. Seems so many women tell me that they are proud of how tight their pussy can be, though that is appealing in a sense, but I'd like to know it can also be loose and be able to stretch out.

Loose pussies can be soooo much fun to play with. I have to give praise to the sensation a loosened cunt offers. As far as the feeling on my dick goes, I enjoy how deep I can penetrate a widened pussy, to be able to tickle her cervix while I thrust into her gives me a rush. It certainly allows for better 'jackhammer sex' too. Much easier to just POUND away on a woman for a good length of time when she is stretched out. And fisting, quite hard to do with a woman who is tighter than a vice.

The thought of me loosening up a woman is exciting to me. Gets me hot knowing I have stretched out her love canal from an evening of thrusting in and out of her. Had a few hubbies too tell me they love the feeling of their own wife after she has been stretched with me. Mentally stimulating I think knowing I've left my mark on her so to speak!

Ownership



What does it mean to 'own' a white wife? Lots of cuck husbands and couples discuss the term loosely, but I may have different thoughts than them on what that is truly defined as.



As with many of the more extreme aspects if the interracial lifestyle, I am interested in further exploring this topic. However as a disclaimer, I don’t feel the necessity to make certain topics always present in the bedroom. Not every relationship must include these elements to please me. I do love the thought of control this opens up however.

To own a woman in the bedroom is of course to use her body for one's own sexual gratification. My idea of that always includes being the dominant, aggressive, enigmatic leader in between the sheets. Instructing a woman to move to a certain position, try something new for me, or ordering her to talk nasty to me is a way of 'owning' her in bed.

What about a black bull requesting changes be made to other aspects of her day to day routine? Taking it beyond the doors of the bedroom into a new dominion of control over her life. Some of the first things I think of taking over include appearance changes to fit my liking.

Possibly changing hair color or style, to best fit my vision of her flaunting her sexuality. always been partial to drastic highlights in a woman's hair, that or have her dye it a totally different color than her natural tone. Just an extreme change of any sort says she is willing to make alterations for me, and a recent 'do' says to everyone else she has some confidence in her appearance and thinks of herself as sexy even.



Id use the authority of her black bull lover to sway decisions on make-up as well. I’m no expert on cosmetics, but I do know I like the sultry look heavy eye shadow brings. Strong mascara and lipstick sure help to project a provocative look as well.



The same thought goes for her attire, altering her wardrobe to allow for a more free expression of her figure. And of course show more skin to please her dominant lover. I'd love to assist and approve when shopping for new outfits that portray a woman not afraid to express her sexuality in her dress. Anything that reveals more legs & thighs, deeper cleavage, lots of shoulders and back, and perhaps even a little mid section is what I'd be looking for.




Essentially the idea is to modify the white wife to best suit my own hormonal drives and aesthetic approval. Perhaps it is an idea grounded in fantasy to expect this kind of authority over a woman’s sex life and presentation, The prospect however does turn me on to consider, and I have an ultimate obsession in altering her image as I see fit........"Weight Gain"