Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Wedding Rings



In my opinion, they are overlooked as a tool that's able to be incorporated into sexual play. In mainstream society, wedding rings are of course meant to symbolize the promise of a married couple to be faithful to each other. They indicate that the wearer is a 'taken' woman, and has no interest in men other than her husband. So when I see a ring on a finger of a woman I'm either flirting with or having sex with, I view it as a turn-on and a taboo to be broken.



It first came to my attention when a wife I was sleeping with at the time would remove her necklace, her earrings, her bracelets, and then her wedding band before she slipped under the sheets. I understand discarding your jewelry before hopping in the sack, but part of me disliked that she felt the need to also shed the symbol of her fidelity. It dawned on me that I liked seeing her adorn such an indication of her marriage... YET... be acting like such a wanton slut for ME! It was a sign of what kind of woman I had in front of me, a married white whore disregarding the bonds of matrimony to satisfy her desire for obscene sex with a black man. I deeply wanted to see her keep it on while I ravished her, so I just suggested it at my next opportunity. Her response was exactly what I had hoped it would be, She seemed elated that I found the emblem of her marriage such a kinky turn-on. Being eager to oblige my fetish for breaking such a taboo, she even offered to use her left hand only to stroke my cock while she sucked the head my dick so I could see her rings. That led to a thunderous orgasm while she declared what a ‘dirty white wife’ she was for me.



And since, I’ve integrated some element of kink involving a woman's wedding rings into every sexual relationship I've had with a married white wife. The next time that it sparked my imagination to involve some "ring play", was during a sexual relationship with a married slut while her very cuckold husband watched us engage in lewd sexual behavior. I was contemplating where to deposit my load on his wife, in her cunt, on her face, or..... on her wedding ring! The idea hit as a perfect way to mark my territory on his woman and show my lack of respect for their cuckold marriage. I was amazed how much I myself got off on tarnishing her ring with a hot load of gooey cum. Later they both shared with me how much it turned both of them on as husband and wife to experience. With that couple it became a regular practice to smear her rings while I came. Usually before I came, I’d have her place her hand across one of her breasts so her ring rested on her nipple, lots of fun to coat her jewelry and watch it ooze down and lather her tit as well. Also equally if not more satisfying to do the same with her ring finger in her own slit. In either case, I’d always demand to watch her clean her rings off in front of her husband.



Another couple, with whom I also introduced to the kink of ring play, got into it in a different way. The husband also liked the idea of violating a married woman’s symbolic ring. He suggested the idea of having her wear it on an anklet or attached to the nipple ring on one of her pierced nipples while I fucked his wife. So of course we tried both and I’d suck and spit on her diamond jewelry while thrusting my dick in her holes. It was most fun while it dangled from a breast so I could use it to simultaneously tease her nipple while in my mouth.



With one of my longest running girlfriends, a married woman who played with hubbies consent and encouragement, we regularly get together without her husband present. It was her idea at first to play to his cuckold wishes by coming home with a pussy full of cum and show him the deposits in her panties. She shared with me more than a few times how much he loved seeing how much semen oozed out of her holes and into the crotch of her panties. I began by suggesting that she always wear black silk or satin panties so the contrast of the white cum stood out further gleaming against a canvas of black. We’d regularly play late into the night and at one point began calling and sending him lewd pictures while we got kinky. It was actually HER idea to put her own ring in the middle of the crotch of her cum stained undies to send to him through his e-mail. I thoroughly enjoyed the look of it, and her husband was overjoyed with the lewdness of the scene. I couldn’t help but imagine what he thought upon seeing it. Here are a few pictures of the debauchery.







While I’m surfing Interracial Porn on the net or browsing user photo’s, I must admit it’s always kinkier and more of a turn on when you see a marriage band on the ring finger of a white slut fooling around with black men. I seem drawn to look for one in any series of pictures from interracial swingers personal photo galleries. Either it’s right up front and plainly visible, or you have to search for it a bit, but I always smile to myself when I see it in other peoples material.








One of my favorite Ideas I have yet to try is replacing a woman’s wedding ring with a piece of jewelry I’ve given her. You have to admit that is a sure sign of establishing my dominance and a great symbol of her showing submission. I’ve heard from a few cuck hubbies too that loved the idea for their wife. A bold move like that is only for those into the idea of ownership of their wife by a black master. I think one of the following rings would be appropriate for such a declaration….



As an identification of her belonging to another man, I always view this particular piece of jewelry as turn-on. To see it on a ring finger while we’re getting to business puts me in a very sexually deviant frame of mind.



“It’s only kinky the first time”…..
~Unknown

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Oiled Skin

I love women’s nude oiled bodies!





Nude wet skin looks fantastic on its own, but a well oiled body has a shine and appeal like nothing else. It screams "TOUCH ME".





Weather I’m applying a copious amount to her myself, or watching her lather herself up, the end result is still an aphrodisiac for me. Personally I like rubbing it all over her body with my own hands. A lot of the fun is in covering and touching every square inch of her sexy skin and leaving traces of a shinny, smooth, and radiant oil. Though I wont discount the turn on I find from watching a lady smear and spread it over her own body. Seeing a woman lay her hands on her own body is enough of turn on for me, but add in the fact that she is covering herself in the glossy, shimmering liquid…. that’s over the top erotic!





I think my love affair with oil stemmed from the pleasure I’ve received from giving massages to female lovers. I’ve always liked the ooh’s and ahh’s from that activity as well. I discovered oil makes running my hands over her shoulders and back so much easier and has a visual appeal as well.





Usually I’ve used the standard baby oil to achieve the luminous allure of skin glistening with sex appeal. However, a variety of concoctions can be used ranging from almond oil, coconut oil, emu oil, castor oil, grape seed oil, olive oil and many more. Your erotic experience can much better if you choose an oil that appeals to your senses.



I love the way water beads on an oiled woman's nude parts, The contrast of oil and water enhances skins natural glow and has a healthy appeal.





The smooth, silky glide of your hands across a body covered in oil feels totally different from any other type of experience you may have had from rubbing two nude bodies together. I’d love to show you or your woman…..

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Sex Toys

A good toy is not simply limited to objects that you stick into a variety of orifices. Neither are they meant to replace good performance, sex toys should be the perfect add-on to a great sexual relationship. They are about enrichment rather than replacement. Ideally they should increase creativity and reduce monotony.

The kinkier and more Lewd, the more fun in my opinion. Sometimes I like a little shock value when I introduce a new one to a lady. Most of my favorites are typically thought of as items for use in a Dom/sub relationship, but I think a lot of them can be used for fun even with people not necessarily into that culture.

So here is a collection of some of my favorite items:

Handcuffs - Whether to a headboard, or a pole in the basement, or just behind her back, restraining a woman's wrists gives me great pleasure. I like taking away the sense of control from them to allow them to fully give into their sexual gratification. I personally prefer behind the back as my favorite place to bind her wrists. Still allows for quite a bit of freedom of movement while taking away her ability to maneuver herself and direct any action.



Butt Plugs - There is a ridiculous amount or nerve endings in a woman's anus, almost like it was built to receive a stimulus. Even with women that try an anal plug for the first time, all have always told me they orgasm harder from the full feeling in their ass. I just love the look of a toy lodged in a delicious rectum. I also have to say if I'm penetrating a woman who is wearing one, I can actually feel the additional tightness from her ass being toy stuffed. I had one girl that loved wearing one during they work day at my request. I have one with a pig tail end currently, and would like to have a horse tail plug as well.







Spreader Bars
- The purpose being that it allows easy access to your partner's vagina or ass, since spreader bar keeps their legs pulled apart. No way a woman can attempt to close off her private areas while one of these is strapped on. I find it lends further excitement to a helpless feeling of relinquishing control to her black bull. Some of my favorite models of the bar include a strap to fasten wrists to it as well as ankles, putting a woman in a very venerable and almost 'doggie style' state of readiness.







Pussy Pumps
- It's basically a small vacuum pump that goes over the vulva and sucks air out, encouraging blood flow to the genitals. Most women report increased sensitivity, and men report increased tightness. I love seeing the face of a woman as we engorge the tissue of her pussy. It's usually a new feeling for most and one hell of a creative method of foreplay.







Collars
- It's just visually appealing to me to see a woman neck adorned by a symbol of submission. I typically like to use the types that allow a chain to be fastened to the front. Its nice to be holding a lead that's is connected to a woman's throat to lead her about. Not to mention, it just looks tarty and whorish to see a woman wearing one. Some of the most interesting ones have text on them that proclaim an open sexuality about the lady wearing it. Those are fun to personally fasten on a females neck.











Anal Beads
- Yet another great way to have fun with a woman's rear end. One of the coolest things is seeing them disappear inside a delicious rump. The best results I've always noticed from a woman who's enjoying them, is to withdraw them from her tight sphincter as she is cumming.





Nipple clamps - Quite possible one of my favorite things to touch on a white wife, her nipples. Clamps are a fun way of being a litter rough on such a sensitive area than she may be accustomed to. On the pair I own, the tips are coated with latex, so they provide a certain measure of comfort, but also a nice tight squeeze to a delectable tit. A lot of models have a chain connecting the clamp from breast to breast, I just love the way those look. The most obvious fun is to tug or pull on the chain, increasing the pressure on her nipples.







Mouth Gags
- The idea isn't just keeping your partner silent, but something about squealing and moaning being a bit muffled by one is candy for the ears. Ball gags offer a real interesting look and offer the wearer something to clamp onto. Bit gags look great while a woman's teeth and lips are stretched around one. I prefer however an open mouth gag (I own two), it allows for more creativity as to what can be placed inside her mouth while affixed to her head.









Black Dildo
- Never underestimate the fun that can be had with an additional phallus. I've been known to buy one for girls I date, especially wives. I'll send her home with one knowing she can masturbate with a cock colored very differently from hubby's. While using one with her, I can achieve penetration of two of her available holes, or watch her use it on herself. A very good tool to keep handy to use on black cock sluts.







Sex Swing - I imagine the plethora of positions that myself and a partner can engage in during use. Swings can helps get gravity out of the way for freedom during sex play. From the doggy to upright missionary to cowgirl, the swing will make things comfortable, bouncy and fun. Even oral stimulation (no matter which partner gives or receives) will get a new feel and flavor when a swing is included. My favorite has restraints built in to secure wrists and ankles once she is hoisted up.



Lubes
- Simple part of play, but very important for the comfort of all involved. Having a wet and ready orifice is essential to good erotic play. I ALWAYS have a bottle handy to keep the action going. Water-based lubes tend to be my favorite, they are safe to use with condoms for those that insist on rubbers. Plus they are fun to apply to a white cunt, and a glistening and wet pussy just looks too tempting not to plunge into.



Never a bad idea to mix it up and keep it fresh with a few naughty toys.